Robin Zabiegalski

About the Author

Robin Zabiegalski (they/them) is a queer, non-binary writer and movement instructor. Their health and wellness writing has been published on xoJane, Heavy.com, HealthDigest, Glam, and other publications. When Robin isn't writing, they can be found practicing or teaching yoga, training or teaching Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, playing Fortnite with their partner, or chasing their rambunctious preschooler.

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Starting Therapy The Benefits of Online Therapy Go Beyond Convenience

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Mental Health 101 Regain Control: Proven CBT Strategies for Anger Management

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Voices & Advice Is Therapy the Secret to a Stress-Free Work Life?

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Starting Therapy The Benefits of Online Therapy Go Beyond Convenience

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Starting Therapy Grief Counseling: When & How to Get Started

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Starting Therapy The Truth About Men and Couples Therapy

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Mental Health 101 All Your CBT Questions Answered by Experts

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Starting Therapy Alma vs. BetterHelp: Which is Best for Finding a Therapist?

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Starting Therapy Alma vs. SonderMind: Compare Online Therapy Options

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Starting Therapy Starting Couples Therapy: What to Expect and How to Prepare

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Starting Therapy Premarital Counseling Questions & How to Get Started

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Mental Health 101 Mental Health: Why AI Therapists Can’t Replace Human Connection

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Starting Therapy Alma vs. Grow Therapy: Which is Best for Finding an Online Therapist?

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Starting Therapy What to Expect from a Therapy Consultation

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Voices & Advice Ask Alma: How Do I Stick to a Routine When I Hate Structure?

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Starting Therapy Is Therapy Worth It? An Honest Review: Benefits, Tips, and More

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In Session Is It Time to Change Therapists? Here’s How to Tell

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Voices & Advice Do I Have Trauma? Signs & Advice From a C-PTSD Survivor

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Mental Health 101 What Are Attachment Styles — And Can I Change Mine?

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Voices & Advice Ask Alma: My Friend Diagnosed Herself as Autistic. I Don't Buy It

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Clinician Perspectives Why Mentorship Matters

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Starting Therapy How to Tell If a Therapist is (Really) Neurodiversity-Affirming

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Voices & Advice Call It What It Is: How to Know If You’re 'Trauma Bonded'

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Voices & Advice 5 Tips For an ADHD-Friendly Workspace

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Alma News Therapy Doesn’t Always Work. (Here’s Why.)

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Mental Health 101 Reactive Attachment Disorder in Adults: Signs to Look For and How to Heal

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Clinician Perspectives 7 Mistakes Therapists Make When Choosing CEUs — And How to Avoid Them

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Starting Therapy 7 Tips For Preparing For Your First Therapy Session

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Clinician Perspectives How to Find the Right Therapy Clients For Your Practice

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Starting Therapy How to Find a Black Female Therapist

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In Session 7 Signs That It’s Time to End Therapy

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In Session How to Break Up With Your Therapist: Templates and Tips

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Voices & Advice I Have OCD, And Intrusive Thoughts Aren’t ‘Quirky’ — They’re Torture

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Alma News Conversation: Finding a Therapist Who Gets You

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Clinician Perspectives Why Black Mothers Need Culturally Humble Care

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Starting Therapy Demystifying Insurance: How Mental Health Benefits Work

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In Session 9 Reasons Why Therapy Isn’t Helping and What to Do

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Clinician Perspectives Emotional Exhaustion & Stress Amongst Clinicians: A Recipe for Burnout

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Mental Health 101 What is the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP)? Is it Right For Me?

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Starting Therapy How to Find a PTSD Therapist

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Voices & Advice Next Time You Can’t Sleep, Try Progressive Muscle Relaxation

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Clinician Perspectives Therapist Reviews: Alma vs. Headway vs. SimplePractice

Mental Health 101 8 Things to Know Before Trying the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP)

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Clinician Perspectives Setting Professional Boundaries: A Guide for Clinicians

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Mental Health 101 Does Safe and Sound Protocol Work? SSP Review for C-PTSD (And More)

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Clinician Perspectives How Continuing Education Changed My Life (No, Really!)

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Alma News Alma vs. TherapyNotes

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Alma News Alma vs. SimplePractice

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Mental Health 101 Honoring Us All: Healing After Adult Child Estrangement

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Clinician Perspectives Tax Season Preparation: A Guide for Clinicians

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Clinician Perspectives 7 Things to Consider Before Starting a Therapy Private Practice

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Clinician Perspectives The First Therapy Session: A Guide for Clinicians

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Clinician Perspectives AI & Behavioral Health: What Every Clinician Should Know

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Mental Health 101 Why I’m Not ‘Fighting’ My Eating Disorder Anymore

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Clinician Perspectives Resourcing Yourself to Overcome Burnout as a Therapist

Alma News Introducing Alma Integrity Standards

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Voices & Advice Loving Kindness Meditation

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Alma News How Alma Minimizes Paperwork & Saves Time for Clinicians

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Mental Health 101 Reunification Therapy For Divorce: Repairing Parent-Child Relationships

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Clinician Perspectives How Naomi Cohn, LCSW, uses Alma to avoid provider burnout

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Starting Therapy Therapy for Teens

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Starting Therapy Child Therapy: How It Works, Types, and Finding the Right Therapist

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Mental Health 101 Family Constellation Therapy

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Clinician Perspectives Unpacking Holiday Stress & Healthy Coping Strategies: A Provider’s Guide for 2023

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Mental Health 101 Why Our Families Affect Us So Much

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Clinician Perspectives Building Sustainability Amidst the Chaos

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Clinician Perspectives What is a ‘Wiley Treatment Planner’ and Should Therapists Use Them?

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Voices & Advice Not just anyone.

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Alma News On unequal access to mentors in behavioral health care

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Clinician Perspectives As a therapist, I miss open doors.

Voices & Advice People-Pleasing Isn’t 'Manipulative' — It’s Fawning

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Alma News Assessment Tools in Alma: Supporting Therapists and Client Relationships

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Mental Health 101 What is a ‘Trauma Response,’ Actually? And How Many Are There?

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Clinician Perspectives Therapists: You're Not Ineffective, You're Exhausted.

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Clinician Perspectives Why I chose Alma for my private practice

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Clinician Perspectives How Therapists (Really) Measure Progress

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Clinician Perspectives Doing and Knowing: On Fostering Growth in the Therapy Room

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Clinician Perspectives The Most Overlooked Tax Deductions for Therapists

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Clinician Perspectives On Coming Out to Clients as a Queer Therapist

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Clinician Perspectives Demystifying Minority Stress Theory and Its Impact on Mental Health

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Mental Health 101 The Role of Diagnosis in Therapy

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Mental Health 101 Recognizing and Treating Dissociative Identity Disorder

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Starting Therapy 9 Reasons To Consider Therapy, Even If You’re Feeling ‘Fine’

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Clinician Perspectives A Roe v. Wade Resource Guide for Mental Health Care Providers

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Clinician Perspectives Gender-Affirming Care: Thoughts & Perspectives from Therapists

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Voices & Advice Getting Organized: Effective Strategies for Adults with ADHD

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Mental Health 101 Mental Health Statistics That You Should Know

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Clinician Perspectives A Guide for Getting More Referrals to Your Therapy Private Practice

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Voices & Advice Demand Avoidance: A Guide For When You’re Too Anxious to Do Anything

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Voices & Advice ‘Good Vibes Only’: People With Mental Health Struggles Aren’t Disposable

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Clinician Perspectives Destigmatizing mental health

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In Session How Can I Tell If Therapy is Working?

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Mental Health 101 What is Rejection Therapy?

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Alma News How Cross-State Licensure Reform Can Ease America’s Mental Health Crisis

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Clinician Perspectives The State of Black Mental Health: Thoughts & Perspectives from Black Therapists

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Mental Health 101 5 Types of Disordered Eating That Are Normalized

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Starting Therapy How to Know if a Therapist is Right For You

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Voices & Advice Coffee Isn’t Breakfast, And 5 Other Lessons From Eating Disorder Recovery

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Alma News Alma’s Influence

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Starting Therapy How to find a culturally sensitive therapist as an Indian American person

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Clinician Perspectives The Most Common Challenges Facing Therapists

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Starting Therapy Does Insurance Cover Therapy? How to Calculate Your Cost

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Mental Health 101 Cognitive behavioral therapy: What it is, how it works, and who it’s best for

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Mental Health 101 Psychodynamic therapy: What it is, how it works, and who it’s best for

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Starting Therapy How to find a culturally sensitive therapist as a Latinx person

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Starting Therapy How to find a culturally sensitive therapist as an Afro-Caribbean person

A black man with dreadlocks lies, despondent, on a gray loveseat before a therapist holding a clipboard.

Clinician Perspectives Why Cultural Sensitivity Matters in Addiction Treatment